Friday, April 20, 2007

You Can Not Attract What You Do Not Respect


Its universal law, its Biblical, its karma, its fact! You reap what you sow. You will not be able to attract those things that you desire which you do not respect. If you have no respect for wealth, prosperity, abundance, happiness, and being healthy you will not have these things in your life.

What happened when you first told your friends and family that you were going to start a home business or any type of business for that matter?

They probably did what mine did to me. They either laughed, cut you down, tried to talk you out of it or they did it all. Mine tried to talk me out of it giving me the old “why not get a real job with security and benefits?” Also they said I was crazy? Please tell me any job in today’s world that is actually secure and that the company is going to look after you?

Anyway, the reason they do these things is because they can not see themselves doing it and becoming successful so they can not visualize anyone they know being able to succeed also.

Plus they are afraid of the risk involved and afraid of failing so they will not try it themselves so if they can not be successful they do not want anyone they know to become successful either.

They want to keep you down with them.

If you were to make it, becoming successful, it just reminds them of their own fears and constant thoughts of lack. Now I know that not all friends and family are like this, but many are. Mine were.

These types of people are constantly disrespecting money, prosperity, wealth, and abundance when they do these types of things to others that are seeking a better life for themselves.

Anyone that is rich and successful to them they see as a greedy person. They believe everything is a scam, all sales people are liars, and if it’s outside the scope of what they consider a normal job then they have a closed mind to it.

Yet they wish to be rich themselves! That is the irony of it all!

Why is it that so many people who have won lotteries are broke just a few short years?

Simple. By some luck, they won a fortune but their ignorance caused them to lose it all. Their ignorance being that you can only earn income only to the degree that their awareness will allow them to keep.

Huh?

See, If you are not aware that you can earn that kind of income, which in this case the lottery its worth millions of dollars, most likely you are going to lose it all and the statistics show this to be true.

The majority of people who win these lotteries are the very type of people that have always been cutting down other people that were already successful or on their way to success in their chosen field.

Also these people did not EARN their fortune. They did WORK for it. When you have not worked for something, you have not experienced the gratitude of receiving all what you have worked for and built that connection, a mental connection to your fortune and success that you have worked so hard for. Plus as you are more successful and your income continues to soar, you become aware of your earnings. You can visualize earning even more, you can see it, and when you can see it, you believe it and that is the awareness that will allow you to keep what you have reaped for your self.

When you have been handed something, in this case the lottery winnings, the appreciation for it will be missing, the connection will not be there as having earned it, when you do not appreciate something, you will eventually lose what it is that you do not appreciate and have taken for granted. You do not have respect for it.

Think about it.

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Friday, April 13, 2007

How to Overpower Fear - Take Action With Purpose


I know a guy who thinks he's too short. Never mind the fact that his feet reach the ground, proving he isn't :P. The fact remains that many of you think you have some disqualifying flaw. Looking for a magic bullet to overcome your 'deficiency'? Guess what? Ain't no magic bullet.

Instead, you find out it's the ACTION you take that cures the FEAR that kept you back. I know, from my own experience, playing with this stuff IN REAL LIFE gives me a confidence and ability that I never imagined possible. And it's not just limited to dealing with women. Any time you push yourself out of your comfort zone and try something new, with an outcome in mind, builds your Performance Power.

The point here is - fieldwork is king! While some may argue that online seduction is no substitute for face-to-face cold approaches, any interaction with anyone that involves your conscious use of the techniques and strategy of this skill can increase your ability to CLOSE. This stuff is initiatic - you gotta do it, not analyse it to death or, worse, speculate about it. The guys who succeed are the ones who do the work.

Get yourself where the girls are. Find out just how good they can stand to feel. While you're at it, find out how good YOU can stand to feel. I hope you don't have to overcome the lousy attitude I had about myself to do it. Now that it's gone, I hardly recognize myself. Maybe it's the hat.